“How do I keep my boundaries, when others walk over them?” you may be asking. Perhaps you have protected the psychic borders of your body and aura with a bubble, a chakra spin, a force field, mirrors, and myriad other techniques — and yet others psychically trample or wade through your well outlined lines of demarcation.
Why, you ask? Because they can — and most often they don’t even have a clue they are doing so on a psychic level. Just because you have good boundaries and understand intuitively what they are, it doesn’t mean others have done the work or practice or even know what the heck a boundary is — other than a cliff, and then, of course, it’s survival.
The solution is not a straight line, but an ever-undulating one involving a balance of several techniques. One of the best is acknowledging that you sense that your lines of protection have been breached or are being opened. You may not see it, but if you know it intuitively, then it’s just as real as if someone walked into your home unannounced. What would you do then?
When someone or something — it could be a thought, energy or an actual person — invades your space, you need to act. Use your tools and keep flexible with your field. One of the best techniques is to physically say or write down what you feel and accept it as truth. Bring it into this time and place and ask yourself, “What can I do now that I know where it is coming from and maybe what it is?”
So often we accept what is not ours or dismiss the infraction of another. But it is your soul and your aura — and it is your responsibility to say, “Get the hell outta here.” Only you have the right to allow or disallow entry. Like the example of someone walking into your home, sometimes a psychic entry may not be so obvious, yet the effect is the same on some level within you. Acknowledge, act or prevent the action by making a statement of intent that no one or no energy is allowed unless you allow it. Put up your psychic “no trespassing” sign. Designate who may enter and when and how.
Keeping it fluid and not rigid is the key. There are times when all of us are trod upon energetically. In those cases, call in, or even preemptively, your team of guides, angels, power animals, etc. with a blank statement: “Those who wish my highest good protect, my children, pets, physical objects, etc.” Tell them why you are asking for assistance. “Ask and ye shall receive” goes into effect.
Those who understand your highest good will not cross your boundaries without your approval. Forgiveness sets the energy free. Learn and move on and take action in the form of acknowledgement. Work with your team. The more you release, the more room you have to fill yourself with light and love.
“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened….”
I believe this applies no matter your faith, creed or belief.